Only for those who identify themselves as gay and Chinese...?

I'd like to know if 1) you like older whites; and 2) what do you find most attractive in a guy?





The reason I ask is that I did a lot of meditation and energy work to


meet my soul mate...and i met one! Over the last year we became


very close, and I said I was gay at the outset. He was Chinese American and said he wasn't gay, but he liked me. We had an uncanny number of similarites More than just chance.





We are both monkeys but separated by 12 years. I am a Libra and


he is Cancer. In so many ways he exceeded my expectations or dreams. In December, something changed, he became distant %26amp; last month I ended it. I felt nothing (coming from him) for several months. Energy-wise I feel we were/are a complementary match. he is very into martial arts, I am very into Buddhism.





If you met someone and the energy was right, would you get


involved? (By energy right I mean we both felt happy after


just talking to each other.)





I would appreciate any advice, analysis and answer the


questions

Only for those who identify themselves as gay and Chinese...?
Dear Rice:


To answer your question, in general I like men, no matter what color of their skin tone, but they must be a good person, nice, kind, caring but not controlling.


In term of what do I find most attractive in a guy, I think a man who can carries a conversation without being bitter about life is very attractive, some one who is confident but not stubborn (spell??) is attractive, but it also depend on each individual.


I had ones met a guy I think we had a lot in common, as in your word, the energy was right, but he only wanted me as a friend not as a boyfriend, when I took a step forward in our friendship, he backed out completely, we have not see or talk to each other since then, I still remember the time and conversation we shared, it will be in my memory and no regret.


If I meet someone and the energy is right, I would like to get involve with him, and ONLY if he is gay.


I hope in the near future, you will find someone special and the perfect energy.


Best of luck.
Reply:he sounds straight so why did u think something could happen between u and him ,if its because he told u that he liked u then its like he didnt just till u he liked u he also told u hes not gay right before he told u he liked u , so he probable meant he liked u as a friend. If hes not gay just be his friend and except that nothing more will come out of it and just move on and fine a guy who will date u .





P.s I'm a girl and I'm straight but i thought i could help u so i hope that if u dont think my answer is all that helpful ,that u thought it was a bit helpful.
Reply:I am not chinese but I can speak it....I think it's fairly clear that he has made his choice..You can't do anything...he doesn't want the relationship...dui bu qi.