Thursday, November 12, 2009

How could I get my ex-boyfriend to become my boyfriend again? (give me a good opinion please)?

I love my boyfriend a lot and I do mean a lot. Sometimes we just can't seem to get along, so we break up then make up. This is the 3rd time we broke up and I really miss him. He's very emotional in many ways, usually he's the one who comes back to me after we broke up. This time it was me who dumped him, and I want him back now. But every single time I want to start a conversation with him, it became more difficult. How should I start a conversation with him? Any ideas that will make him feel comfortable? He's into traditional chinese culture (martial arts, clothing, etc.), he's gentile, but he would just completely ignore you if he hear things that he doesn't want to hear. Any clues?

How could I get my ex-boyfriend to become my boyfriend again? (give me a good opinion please)?
Every guy gets a second chance..





but if you love him that much.. tell him how you feel





If you wanna start a convo with him... start it out with a normal everday conversation





like.. "hey whats up??" or just simply, "hey" when you get to the point when you REALLY need to tell him, just be like, "I really need to tell you something"





if it gets too awkward. for you both. then just say somthing like, "I know this is weird for you... its weird for me too but this is truly how I feel"





Hope I helped!!!!





ML


-TayTay
Reply:Why go back in the first place? Just end it now before you two end up hating each other and someone winds up cheating. It'll be far better to try to end it as nicely as possible and maybe try to be friends rather than it just spiral out of control.
Reply:put out or get out
Reply:tell him how do u feel about him and hope for the best thats all i have to say.
Reply:Whatever it was that made the relationship end previously, is bound to show itself again if you get back together. This is because people are who they are and won't change.
Reply:Maybe you should just let it go and move on with living your life. When you keep going back you get use to that routine, which isn't good. Listen we only live life 1 time so you have to make the best of it. Good luck and GOD's speed.
Reply:Since you've broken up THREE times already, what makes you think you won't break up again? Seriously maybe its time to stop, ponder and find a new guy who doesn't feel uncomfortable when you try to TALK to him.
Reply:if you guys are like this i would hate to see what would happen if you two were to get married... First you two need to learn a thing about stability and then you two need to learn that everything cant be your way after that just tell him how you feel and let things go from there and if it doesnt work out then its not the end of the world
Reply:maybe he maybe don't want to get bak with u so move on okay *****
Reply:first he needs to open up and allow you to talk to him. i've had that trouble w/my boyfriend... [well, he broke up w/ me two days ago]
Reply:Learn to let love. If he wants to be with you he will come back to you in his own time. Forcing someone into a relationship is never the right answer. Why be in a relationship with someone who isn't 100% sure if they even want to be with you, not to mention the typical issues that all relationships face. Take a hint maybe he wants to be single or just take a break. Keep an open dialouge that he's comfortable with..if he doesn't want any conversation LEARN to accept it. Sometimes we can be stuck on rebuilding an old relationship instead of moving on and repairing a new relationship as it needs small doses of maintainence. Pushing yourself into a relationship can be just as "worse" as putting yourself back into the daters pull. ..... be patient let him make the choice. From face value.... after 3 break-ups it's time to split up.

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